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ALFRED BINYON
WRITES TO HIS MOTHER ABOUT HIS HOLIDAY IN KENDAL
Benjamin
Binyon
41
Cannon Street
Manchester
Kendal
4th month 14th [= Monday 14th April]1823
My
dear Mother,
Many
thanks for thy promptitude in complying with my request. Thy kind letter has
just come to hand and in reply I sincerely feel grateful for your kind
indulgence in allowing me to enjoy the pure air of this delightful spot. I
remained all 7th day at Parkside
basking in the sun and reading a delightful tale called "Claudine"
which I have bought for one of the children. Robert Dockray,
Wilson Lloyd and several of the young
Braithwaites
came to spend the afternoon with us and I enjoyed playing several games at
marbles with them. It revived recollections of my own schoolboy days.
Sam
Marshall's
2 female assistants dined with us. They are young women whom the smallpox
has made sad havock but I doubt fill up their appointed station with
great advantage to society.
Yesterday
I dined at William Wilson's whose wife is still delicate from her late
confinement.
I
have transcribed into a small book for thy inspection the names of the families
of various Friends here with whom you are acquainted, and should they live, they
will be a thriving colony and many of them very handsome, both boys and girls.
Cousin Dorothy has two of the finest children
I ever beheld. Many of them I am sorry to say are just now troubled with an influenza
which is very prevalent here.
On
5th day last William D. junior
and I took a delightful ride of 10 miles which I enjoyed much. The scenery in
the distance was in the neighbourhood of the lakes. He promises to treat me in
this way often which I will gladly accede to as he is a gentlemen in every sense
of the word. All the branches of this family are truly kind to me. Rachael
is in a very delicate state of health and cousin Robert says is a queer girl but
be that as it may she is handsome and is very complaisant to me. Sarah
often rides out with her father is an excellent horsewoman and a fine girl. I do
not much admire Mary Wakefield, she has a quizical physiog and I am told can be
very severe. It is fixed that I go with cousin Robert
and Dorothy to dine at Sedgwick
on fourth day next. The book meeting is at Isaac Wilson
3rd day evening which I propose attending. Nicholas Martindale was at
Parkside to breakfast this morning and proceeds this afternoon by way of
Cumberland into Ireland.
This
little town of Kendal astonishes me what a concentration of wealth,
respectability and orthodoxy such I conceive as not easily to be found
elsewhere. Cousin Robert has I assume a very deep pocket. Parkside is to all
appearance an expensive but not a showy place. Cousin Dorothy has 3 female
domestics and a young man (half a Quaker) who drives the carriage, gardens, etc;
there is also a farming man living in the adjoining cottage whose wife washes
all the linen for the family - this I am told is a great luxury which Cousin
Robert insisted upon his spouse indulging in. What a charming woman she is I
need not tell thee.
I
will attend to thy advice about calling on Dorothy Fergusson
- she has kindly invited me to take a meal with her.
Suppose
I was to stay here until the latter end of the present week, then take coach to
Leeds
and from thence into Lincolnshire and return
with Samuel Sims (?). Tell me how this plan would suit your ideas. I hope
to hear by return of post as it proves a great consolation to me.
I
am sorry to hear we are so slack at the works; I want to lend a helping hand
there and get to taking stock as soon as may be. Tell D.Dockray
his son continues mending. W.Dillworth has been here to say his son will ride
with me to Bowness 10 miles from here at the foot of Windermere Lake.
It
is post time and I am united in love to thyself and
by all here.
Thy
affectionate son,
Alfred
The home of Alfred's
relatives Robert and Dorothy Benson, situated one mile from the centre of
Kendal.
"Claudine, or
Humility, the basis of all the virtues. A Swiss tale… by the author of
"Always happy"". First published 1822, and in its 7th
edition in 1835.
Possibly Robert Benson
Dockray (b.1813), son of David Dockray and his wife Abigail, first cousin of
Robert Benson of Parkside. Robert Benson Dockray became resident engineer of
the London & Birmingham Railway, living in Dalton Square, Lancaster. His
daughter Mary married Alfred Binyon's son Frederick at Lancaster Parish
Church in 1866.
A member of the banking
family?
Dorothy Benson was the
daughter of George and Deborah (nee Wilson) Braithwaite.
Samuel Marshall had
succeeded Jonathan Dalton at the Friends' School in Kendal in 1815 and
continued at the school until 1855. The school had been built in 1698, and a
boarding house was opened in 1728. Jonathan and his more famous brother John
Dalton took over the school in 1785. John left Kendal in 1793 to go to the
Literary and Philosophical Society in Manchester, and there demonstrated his
atomic theory.
Smallpox did not begin to
be contained until after the first (permissive) vaccination act of 1840.
During the epidemic of the preceding three years, almost 42,000 people died
of the affliction.
Robert and Dorothy Benson
had three sons and seven daughters; three of the latter died young.
Influenza was endemic
throughout the nineteenth century, and was accepted with resignation; it did
not begin to arouse the concern of public officials until the next century.
Robert Benson was a
wholesale grocer and tea dealer in Stricklandgate, Kendal. His mother was
Deborah Wakefield, half-sister of Alfred Binyon's grandmother Ruth
Wakefield.
The "St Andrew"
sailed from Whitehaven to Dublin every Friday.
A daily service form
Kendal to Leeds had been established by 1810; the "Union" coach
left the King's Arms, Kendal at 5 o'clock and arrived at the Hotel and
Tavern, Leeds about 8 o'clock in the evening. At Leeds there were regular
coaches to all parts of the South.
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